The Heart of Winter

 

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It snowed! Gone, the soggy days and confused tulips. The sun was bright and the trees cast long blue shadows against the drifts. Clumps of snow clung to the bare branches. The bitter cold meant even the streets were white like the streets of my youth, winters long past. Finally, snow that sticks.

Earlier in the week we’d gone to the craft store, one of those chains full of fake flowers and holiday knick-knacks. Red hearts and doilies and paper valentines gave way to St. Patrick’s Day displays with shamrocks and glittery green top hats and signs shaped like bottle tops that read “Kiss Me I’m Irish.” A thought bloomed like a tiny crocus: winter isn’t interminable. The grey will give way to green. In a month, we’ll gather for corned beef and cabbage. The kids will circle the house screaming and laughing and we’ll walk uptown to the parade.

Every year I’m tricked into believing winter is a static state. Lulled into a myopic daze, I’m unable to see the inevitable spring.

My daughter disrupts my train of thought, darting around the living room announcing “Happy Valentine’s Day” as she places paper hearts in front of the cats and pastes a few to the window. My husband is locked in his office busy with work. I re-pot the purple cyclamen, and already six new blooms shoot up and promise to unfurl.  Winnie the Pooh sings exuberantly in the next room. As I write that sentence, I think, adverb, indulgent like a piece of chocolate I shouldn’t eat. I think of other writing advice: to use specific detail and avoid writing “dramatically” or about “feelings.” Still, I want to confide. In this static winter state I flit from guilt to ambition, malaise to joy, surrender to perseverance, despair to hope like a bee trapped in a cup softly banging against its enclosure not realizing it can fly straight up and into the open air.

We sledded down the high school hill at sunset, screaming as the snow hit our boots and sprayed into our faces. Later, my best friend treated us to dinner. The kids ate the basket of tortilla chips while we sipped margaritas from salty rims. We had one of those disjointed conversations made of snippets strung amidst toddler chatter, where every sentence begins with, “What was I just saying?” Eventually we gave up and discussed dinosaurs and played I-Spy and laughed with the kind folks at the next table who retrieved my daughter’s balloon again and again as she let it float up to the ceiling.

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10 thoughts on “The Heart of Winter”

  1. Oh, my internal monologue sounds the same. Every. Single. Time. I’m sorry to see it doesn’t go away after a full year of blogging, but it’s good to know I’m not the only one!

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  2. I love this, have read it 3 times so far:

    “Winnie the Pooh sings exuberantly in the next room. As I write that sentence, I think, adverb, indulgent like a piece of chocolate I shouldn’t eat. I think of other writing advice: to use specific detail and avoid writing “dramatically” or about “feelings.” Still, I want to confide. In this static winter state I flit from guilt to ambition, malaise to joy, surrender to perseverance, despair to hope like a bee trapped in a cup softly banging against its enclosure not realizing it can fly straight up and into the open air.”

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  3. I agree with Cynthia, this is so beautifully written and I’ve read it a few times myself. I love the revelations amidst the ordinariness of daily life. That opening paragraph, and “a thought bloomed like a tiny crocus”….just lovely and hopeful. Thanks for your writing and for reminding me that this season, all seasons, of life and climate, are transient.

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    1. Thank you, Tara! I was relieved to finally hit the publish button on a post again. Every year around this time, I continually have to remind myself that it’s all going to change…it’s like annual amnesia!

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  4. Yep, agree with all–a lovely piece. And my favorite bit is Cyn’s quote. You know how I feel about breaking writing rules, and you’ve just proved me right–you got the best out of this piece by laughing in a rule’s face. I also like your turn at the end, cutting from the meditation on winter to an eminently winterly act, sledding. Very nice. You’re going to be so happy in a few months to have all these lovely little essays sitting here, ripe for collection and expansion. You’re not stuck at all, you’re DOING IT. Be proud!

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    1. Thank you for this generous feedback, Claire! Your encouragement means so much. “Essays ripe for collection”–those words are so illuminating. I’ve been thinking of them like a messy heap of drafts, which I suppose they may well be…But seeing the possibility of a collection (versus the heap) has me much more motivated and excited to go back and work with the material. I’m so grateful for your insight.

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